This story is about two friends who were walking through a desert. While they were going, they had an argument and one of the friends slapped the other one on his face. He was hurt, so without saying anything he wrote on the sand:TODAY I WAS SLAPPED BY MY BEST FRIEND. They continued walking. They reached an oasis,so they decided to take a bath.The friend who was slapped,got stuck in the mire and started to draw. His friend saved him. When the slapped one recovered he wrote on the stone: TODAY I WAS SAVED BY MY BEST FRIEND. The friend who has slapped and saved his friend was surprised and asked the other one, why,when he hurt his friend he wrote it on the sand,and when he saved his friend,he wrote it on the stone? The other friend answered:"When someone hurts us, we should write it down in sand, where the winds of forgiveness can erase it, but when someone does something good for us, we must engrave it in stone, so no wind can ever erase it."LEARN TO WRITE YOUR HURTS IN THE SAND AND TO CARVE YOUR BLESSINGS IN STONE.
This story shows that you have to learn to forget bad things that people do to you, and remember all good ones.Actually I do not exactly agree with it,because sometimes people do so bad things that they do not deserve forgiveness.
Aynura, it very useful, interesting article .I agree with your opinions, but unfortunately it does not refers to real life . But I think if someone writes bad things to stone, it do it to him/herself. Because they suffer from it, not others
The real love doesn't grow when you do something good, and the real love doesn't get decreased when you do something bad. Everybody makes mistakes. To forgive is a holy behavior. Thank you Aynur, I liked it very much. Good choice.
It is very interesting story thanks AYKA.But in reality everybody writes bad things on stone.Unfortunately most of them never thing about good things.They just thing he or she is my friend and if she or he does something good it is normal because they should do it.We just think so
You know,I have an experience in such situation.However my friend wrote good things on the sand and bad things on the stone Everyone should read it and remember this!Thank you,Aynur
I agree with Aynur. There are some cases that u could not forget it even if he or she is your friend or relative. When we try to forget them we just remember them again and could not forget((((